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Nita During Pre-teen and Teen Era

Setelah dimulai dari Hannah Montana Anniversary yang ke-20, lalu Selena Gomez muncul di Wizards of Waverly Place terbaru, Demi Lovato dan Jonas Brothers membawakan lagu This Is Me, dan dimulainya syuting Camp Rock 3, gue pun merasa...

A part of me heal, too.

Banyak hal yang gue lupakan tentang hidup gue, kaya yang pernah gue tulis di sini. Ingatan gue akan masa kecil mulai muncul lagi, gara-gara para bintang Disney itu.

Nita kecil yang dulu sepulang sekolah selalu nonton Disney Channel itu benar-benar bahagia ternyata.


Lalu, malam ini, setelah baca Threads dari co-founder GoGirl, another part of me heal, again...


Gue jadi throwback ke masa pre-teen & teen, dan disitulah gue baru menyadari... how lucky I was back then!

Gue dibesarkan dengan banyak sekali novel, seluruh serial koleksi Harry Potter 1-7, seluruh koleksi The Hunger Games, Twilight, Narnia, The Mysterious Benedict Society, dan banyak novel-novel lainnya.

Selain novel, walaupun gue nggak boleh baca komik, gue selalu punya edisi majalah Bobo dan Girl di saat gue masih SD hingga awal SMP. Sewaktu SMP, gue ikut ekskul taekwondo (dan hampir dijadikan atlet, karena tenagaku kuat banget katanya), sehingga ada fase di mana kulit gue hitaaaam gosong banget, karena latihannya siang bolong di lapangan sekolah.



Lalu, seiring berjalannya waktu, bacaan gue perlahan berkembang menjadi majalah Tiger Beats, Gadis, Kawanku, dan GoGirl!.

Bacaan cewe-cewe di era itu!

Kedua kakak gue beserta mama, rutiiiin banget beliin majalah, dan gue senaaang banget!

I was living in an aesthetic girly world.

Dunia gue menjadi khas cewe-cewe GoGirl! banget, yang senang dengan filter khas kaya gini, motif tribal, dan trend lainnya di era 2012-2014.


Gue inget gimana rasanya setiap membuka plastik kemasan majalah-majalah tersebut. Kertasnya wangi dan licin, isinya penuh tips fashion, perawatan diri, tips romansa, edukasi, cerpen, dan lainnya.

Seiring gue mulai tercuci otak oleh bacaan GoGirl!, ternyata gaya gue berbusana pun ikutan berubah.

Jadi lebih ngerti fashion!

Hahahaha, padahal ada fasenya di mana gue hanya mau pakai blus warna abu-abu yang siklusnya selalu pakai-cuci-setrika-pakai lagi. Sampai pernah, temen kakak gue nanya, "adek gak punya baju lain ya? Yang dipake baju itu mulu."

Ternyata, walaupun hidup gue penuh trauma, ada banyak kenangan indah juga di dalamnya, yang somehow membentuk karakter diri gue di dewasa ini.

Sekarang gue jadi tahu:
1. Gue emang cewe centil dan genit! Dulu, gue gasuka dipanggil 'Nit,' karena mirip ge-nit. Sekarang, gue mengakui kalo gue emang ternyata se-girly ini.
2. Gue suka taekwondo, tapi gue nggak paham kenapa sekolah gue latihan di lapangan panas?! Sementara sebenernya bisa aja latihan di dalam studio yang nggak menyiksa kulit karena terpapar sinar matahari.
3. Sense of fashion gue muncul di era baca GoGirl! dan itu terbawa sampai sekarang.
4. Gue belajar dan suka gambar karena nonton film Barbie! Bukan dari anime atau komik, karena simply gue nggak boleh baca komik dulu. Makanya sense of art gue typical kartun Barbie / Princess.
5. Gue kreatif karena di majalah cewe banyak banget artikel DIY!
6. Dulu, gue suka warna merah, hitam, putih. Sekarang nambah 1 warna lagi yaitu, PINK.
7. Nita emo era was filled with Demi Lovato during her Don't Forget album + Hayley Williams-nya Paramore during Riot! album.

I was literally a spoiled brat.
(Yang digalakin banget sama ibunya, dan dituntut banyak banget, lol).

Satu-satunya hal yang gue sesali adalah, gue nggak ikutan Gadis Sampul / Model Kawanku / GoGirl! Look, karena ga diizinin sama mama. Padahal, gue yakin banget kalo daftar, gue lolos karena emang gue cantik, pinter, pantes, nggak malu-maluin, dan mantep.

Xoxo,
Nita

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